I truly found out today there' no family. Its not healthy for me to be around them for my mental sanity or health. & I'm tired of being the family scapegoat as soon as I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I've been back in town 11 years and do have a boyfriend who loves me very much. I've tried to ignore the family, but it doesn't work. I honestly feel I need to move and get out of the same town they live in. no not run away I've stuck it out for years.